Every
family has traditions and they differ within each family. My father is a Moore
and my mother is a Smith. In my household growing up, we’ve always done
Christmas on Christmas morning. You wake up at the crack of dawn on Christmas
Day and run to the tree to see presents. With all your excitement, you run into
your parents’ room and jump on their bed waking them up because Santa Claus
came. They lug themselves up, follow adrenaline amped-up children to the living
room where the tree sits. Sleep deprived parents make coffee because they
stayed up late to put the presents under the tree so children will believe in
Santa Claus.
We
did Christmas this way because it was how my dad grew up doing Christmas. Then
there’s my mother’s side of the family. There is a lot of impatience in the
Smith family about doing anything. So much so that they open all their presents
Christmas Eve night and then they have nothing to do Christmas Day. Christmas
Eve night holds so much more exciting in the Smith family than Christmas
itself. All the family is there, there is all types of food, and every one
opens their gifts. The next morning, everyone wakes up like well, what do we do now? I don’t know
about other people, but in my family in every generation there’s that one
wealthy person.
In my
parents’ generation, it’s my aunt Cassie. She spoiled her kids bad. They could
afford fourteen gifts for Christmas Eve and another fourteen gifts for
Christmas morning. However, Hounslows are not Smiths. Traditions vary based on
families. People are different and personalities work together differently.
When my family would go spend Christmas with our relatives, my brothers and I
were pressured into opening our gifts Christmas Eve night. If we wanted to
wait, twenty-something people would look at us and say “Well, we’re going to
wait for you.”
My
mom’s family isn’t mean just impatient. They have all the common illnesses of
being impatient. Road rage, fear of waiting in line, fear of leaving on time,
fear of traveling, and fear of having to sit down and have a long conversation.
A tradition in my mom’s family is to say “get to the point”. There was one
holiday that several family members came to us for Christmas. They were not
happy to have to wait until Christmas morning.
Traditions
change based on location and the people with you. Everyone has their own
traditions. Some people don’t believe in Santa, some don’t give presents. In my
family, it’s awesome to be seventeen years old and come downstairs on Christmas
morning to wake up my grumpy parents. My favorite thing to remind my parents is
that every Christmas that I’m home until I have my own children, I’m going to
keep waking them up at six thirty-seven on Christmas morning. That’s my
tradition.
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